So, a few years ago I dated this guy who I really liked from my poetry class. He was beautiful, sweet, Christian, had a good home, and sang/played guitar. Unfortunately, everything else was not compatible with me and I was kinda mean to him. OK, I was definitely mean to him. We were in such different places, and I am glad we didn't let it drag out. For one, I was a completely immature Christian with no intention on becoming more mature. I'm not saying I'm that much better now, but I have definitely grown and continue to grow. Then...not so much. Anyway, I remember our deal breakers, and I just look back at them and laugh. But...I think they'd still be deal breakers for me today, too. Check them out-
1) He said he was going to make me dinner, and that he makes the best beef stroganoff. He brought over a ROLL of beef and a box of hamburger helper.
2) He went to a fashion show and had the BEST appletinis
3) He didn't want any pets.
BLEH. OK, men- men don't drink appletinis unless we're on vacation or at a gay bar in Palm Springs. By all means, get something with an umbrella in it. And, hamburger helper and beef in a roll? Poor kid.
However, there were some amazing things he did, that I will always remember:
-Our first date was on a mission to Mexico to build a home for a family, with his church.
-He prayed with me.
-He brought me flowers from Trader Joe's quite often.
-He was nice to me even through all the crap I gave him. He was still so nice, and nice to my friends. I walked all over him.
In every relationship, there's things we take, and things we can leave. That goes with friendships, family, everything. I'm going to start writing friend profiles here and there to share some of the stories that changed me and my heart. He will always be a part of that.
Friday, July 10, 2009
Updates!
Hey friends- I haven't posted in a while, and I'm so sorry about that! Truth be told- I've been super busy. However, I LOVE writing and writing to everyone I know- so what's been my deal?
Well, this week I had a wonderful opportunity to dog/house sit for my boss Laura. She owns the day spa that I teach at and her husband does website design and is a musician/worship leader. Here's a little 2 in 1 for you- Laura's Wellness Spa designed and hosted by Brad for Laura's business. Aren't they cute in what they do? I'm even in the site somewhere. Look under yoga.
Housesitting for a spa owner is amazing. We always wonder what our doctor's homes are like, what's in our personal trainer or nutritionist's fridge, etc. Let me just say that this home is like a spa, and the towels are super soft and fluffy. I have been taking baths, cooking healthy, and playing with a cute little Pomeranian. In fact, I am actually moving in with my doctor this Saturday. Well- calling him my doctor sounds a little formal. One of my closest friends, Les, is my acupuncturist. His place is just...in his style, and he eats a lot of ramen noodles and avocado smoothies. I can't follow his suit, so I'll be moving in some fruits and veggies and rice milk. I am really excited, though, about the rest of this month.
As you know, I was living with Melissa. I am still there, part time, but will be out by this weekend. I love her- we've grown so close over trials and struggles this year. I am truly going to miss her, and all of my friends, for that matter. I've grown really close to some people that I hope to keep lasting relationships with. These next 3 weeks are going to be interesting, emotional, and adventurous- I can just tell. I can't wait to blog through them to start up my journey for Guam. In the meantime, can you please pray for me- for direction, guidance, support, and God's strength? I can't do it alone, and the prayers of others have really been taking effect. I can just tell.
Loe and peace to you!
Jen
Well, this week I had a wonderful opportunity to dog/house sit for my boss Laura. She owns the day spa that I teach at and her husband does website design and is a musician/worship leader. Here's a little 2 in 1 for you- Laura's Wellness Spa designed and hosted by Brad for Laura's business. Aren't they cute in what they do? I'm even in the site somewhere. Look under yoga.
Housesitting for a spa owner is amazing. We always wonder what our doctor's homes are like, what's in our personal trainer or nutritionist's fridge, etc. Let me just say that this home is like a spa, and the towels are super soft and fluffy. I have been taking baths, cooking healthy, and playing with a cute little Pomeranian. In fact, I am actually moving in with my doctor this Saturday. Well- calling him my doctor sounds a little formal. One of my closest friends, Les, is my acupuncturist. His place is just...in his style, and he eats a lot of ramen noodles and avocado smoothies. I can't follow his suit, so I'll be moving in some fruits and veggies and rice milk. I am really excited, though, about the rest of this month.
As you know, I was living with Melissa. I am still there, part time, but will be out by this weekend. I love her- we've grown so close over trials and struggles this year. I am truly going to miss her, and all of my friends, for that matter. I've grown really close to some people that I hope to keep lasting relationships with. These next 3 weeks are going to be interesting, emotional, and adventurous- I can just tell. I can't wait to blog through them to start up my journey for Guam. In the meantime, can you please pray for me- for direction, guidance, support, and God's strength? I can't do it alone, and the prayers of others have really been taking effect. I can just tell.
Loe and peace to you!
Jen
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